Tuesday 26 November 2013

Raymond B.Cattell


Success over Failure

There are plenty of example of success after failure. but i want to discuss both the terms here. Success is an mixture of hard work, focus, determination.as for failure is an mixture of loss of aim and focus due to some distractions in life.But whats important is standing up after falling and not to loose the will and having self-realization that I can do it all over again and I will succeed rather then losing hope,taking stress or depression.it may be a failure in academics, loosing job etc.Due to which some go under depression, loss of temper, thinking repeatedly about the failure.Family and friends should play an important role in such times making them believe that they can do it again, bringing back their focus and confidence, act as if nothing as happened, distracting them from thinking about failure, keep motivating them etc.this helps one achieving the success all over again as so much positivity makes them energetic, motivated and then the hardwork and focus pays off.

Suggestions:
  • Firstly, for those who cannot deal with failure, I reccommend them to see a Counsellor or Psychologist they will suggest you theraphy which will help you to overcome the stress and also help you to gain that confidence and focus.
  • Secondly, never fear or loose hope because of failure move forward and start putting more efforts, keep trying.
  • Thirdly ,all i can say is failure makes one more strong and capable of facing & dealing any crisis and Believe in yourself that you Can. Never stop Trying!

Thursday 21 November 2013

Has ageing became a stress buster for women?

Today's world for women is more colourful, trying to be open minded, trying different things looking after household and also been independent want to work keep mind steady none was there before as we all know .So when they start feeling succeeded and they start feeling that they can do anything which is great but then the next step for them is beauty as being a women we all go to parlours pamper ourself which is needed for all women till here its great. I personally feel all women are beautiful if they feel from inside but then some start feeling so conscious about themselves as they want to look young and fit for which they try this ageing creams, back in their minds they feel this is end of the world so now some women go under knief this is so absurd.This is all the way women think about themselves which is psychologically harmful.

Suggestions:
  • This is to all women that changes are bound to happen as you grow old and you have to accept it in a good way i know very easy to say but this is the fact and we all have to face it.
  • Secondly, mostly this is all due to stress about family children which affects are health so try to slow down join some activity now all women do it i don't have to say it but this is for those who haven't but never go by plastic surgery as it may be dangerous for you and also this anti ageing creams they contain lots of chemicals which is also harmful for your skin .
  • Talk to a Counsellor this will help you feel good and help you manage stress find solution as you are been heard .
  • Have healthy diet eat right.
  • I always recommend yoga as a Counsellor it does miracles for your skin and mind help you to slow down your stress too.
  • Last but not least feel good about yourself always.